THE 6 STAGES OF CULTIVATING THE PERFECT GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE
You can build the reality and relationship you've been dreaming about. All you have to do is let go of what other people think, put down your self-limiting beliefs, and minimize your negative self-talk.
Read this, and then let's go on a date so we can decide for ourselves what a successful relationship looks like.
Let's get into it.
Awareness - you found my website! You are aware that I exist, and I love that for us.
Consideration - you read the home, about, experience, and maintenance pages, plus a few blog posts. You are thinking about what it would be like to take me on a date, and you are also thinking about your budget.
Decision making - you decided to set up a consultation call with me. It went so well. You sent a deposit, put the other half in an envelope, and confirmed our dinner reservation.
Onboarding - we get to know each other through a few dates, text threads, and phone calls.
Ongoing fun and happiness - the more time we spend together, the more we like each other. We are co-creating an authentic relationship rooted in desires, trust, joy, power dynamics, and mutual respect.
Growth - our relationship grows alongside our health, wealth, abundance, and happiness.
Awareness
Key challenge - you identify what you want (a girlfriend) and perform the necessary research, such as reading my entire website + all of my blog posts. I’m a Goddess and you are aware you need to work for the privilege of being in my presence.
Solution - I step into my role as a curator of information by crafting strategic messages.
Consideration
Key challenge - you have a general understanding of the kind of boyfriend/girlfriend/theyfriend you can be and the kind of girlfriend you wish to have. You are also thinking about how you can make my life easier, plus you are familiar with your budget and hard/soft boundaries.
Solution - We have a consultation call and discuss the GFE. Think of it like a two-way interview. Respectful flirting is encouraged. But read the room first before you start flirting.
Decision making
Key challenge - you prepare your list of questions for our upcoming consultation call. You are self-aware. You know what you have to offer. You think of the types of offerings you would like to bring a Goddess.
Solution - we discuss some of the things we want and don't want on a consultation call. The call went so well; you took inspired action and impressed me by planning and booking our first date.
Onboarding
Key challenge - you are nervous yet excited about this new beginning.
Solution - I put your mind at ease, and we plan more dates and spend more time together. Your anxiety alchemizes into joy. We have an open line of communication. We speak directly about our desires and boundaries. We respond to each other within 24 hours of sending a text or making a call because consistent communication is such a turn-on.
Growth
Key challenge - starting a new relationship requires an investment of time, energy, patience, and an abundance of resources. We gain a deeper understanding of what we want and who we are as individuals and as a couple.
Solution - Our direct style of communication, combined with our own personal brand of finess, means we know where we stand with each other. We play with power dynamics, and we've mastered the art of flirting. Our thoughtfully crafted responses are a turn-on because we're both sapiosexual.
Let's talk about us
A relationship with me will stretch what you thought was possible. If this sounds like an adventure you'd like to explore, we should chat on Telegram.
* * I take my time and energy so seriously that donations are required. See the experiences page. If you are accustomed to investing in all the things you want in life, including the finer things that bring you joy, then you'll have no problem with my high standards. Women are inherently expensive. It's in our nature, and we are worth it. Real men will always see the value in spending time with a Goddess.
In dating relationships, men and women are meant to be collaborative components. Just because I require donations for my time does not mean I don't value yours. It just means your collaborative role is provider, while mine is the prize.