WHAT IS A PROVIDER?
A provider, glucose guardian, or sugar parent is a provider and protector.
Sugar parents come from all genders.
First, let’s go beyond gender for a moment. When I say sugar parent, it could indeed include cis-gendered men. But it could also include non-binary, trans, gender fluid, women, and divine masculine or feminine energy. You could also have a sugar mamma. You might want to call them sugar parents or glucose guardians when speaking generally. No matter the gender, the sugar parent is the provider and the sugar baby is the prize.
What do sugar parents provide?
Sugar parents provide money in addition to love, respect, adoration, career resources, and luxury experiences; the possibilities are endless. When you decide to be a sugar baby or sugar parent, it’s essential to understand that anything and everything is possible. There are no limitations when you are a divine, abundant being.
As a sugar baby, you may want to have a monthly allowance. That is totally acceptable. You know your bills. You know your worth. And you get to decide how much you want each month.
As a sugar baby, you may lead the relationship if everyone is on board with that decision and dynamic. A female-led relationship means the female is in charge. She may be the dominant player and the architect. This means she creates the framework for the relationship and power dynamics, and the sugar parent follows her lead and provides for the sugar baby based on their consensual agreement.
I also love this dynamic for a sugar baby whose human design is a manifest generator. Because she can manifest her ideal relationship, and her happiness generates a beautiful experience.
What does the sugar parent get?
They get the satisfaction, pride, and joy that comes with providing for someone else. They get to be in the presence of a Goddess. They get to be the provider. They get to fulfill their role as a collaborative component. Sugar daddy and sugar mamma are titles that get to be defined by the people in the consenting relationship. Sugar dating is a luxury experience. Being a sugar parent is a status symbol. And a sugar parent cannot exist without a sugar baby.
All dating is transactional, whether it’s spicy or vanilla.
All datig is transactional, period. Every adult needs to understand that every single relationship is transactional, whether or not money is involved. In order to be in a relationship with someone else, there will always be an exchange of energy, time, emotions, skills, resources, knowledge, intellectual property, and physical property like real estate.
If a man buys a woman dinner when they are on a date, that is a transaction. When a man invites a woman on a date because he finds her attractive, and she agrees, that is a transaction.
If you are exchanging time, energy, or other personal resources, that is a transaction. If you hand someone a glass of water when they are thirsty, that is a transaction.
A conversation is a transaction because it’s an exchange of time, energy, and knowledge.
Some people like to date on the cheap because they think that’s the best they can do. I’d like to invite those people to let go of what they thought dating was. I would also like to invite those people to believe that something better can exist.
When you place limitations on yourself, you will naturally place limitations on your relationships. If you expand your belief system, you can expand what is possible. If you are spiritual, you should keep in mind that placing limits on yourself and your experiences is putting a limit on your source. And that is disrespectful to the universe.
Who is sugar dating an excellent vibrational match for?
People who are in the vibrational frequency of abundance are a good fit for sugar dating. When you are in a loving, creative, and abundant frequency, you are expansive. Which means, great things will find their way to you easily. Those things include money, people, places, things, and experiences. There is no limit to the amount of abundance you can receive. The universe is limitless.
Sugar dating is a luxury experience, so of course, it comes with a luxury price tag. It’s an upper tier in the dating world and is best suited for those who are abundant in financial wealth, health, and spirit.
You would make a great sugar parent if…
you enjoy providing for the people in your life
you light up when you make someone else’s life more abundant
you love and respect women and the people you date
you like helping your community achieve their goals
you like making people happy
you are grateful when people share their time, energy, and beauty with you
Final thoughts
Dr. Joe Dispenza said, “There is a power within you that loves you so much. You have to rise up to meet it.”
If you are not satisfied with your current dating life or your romantic relationship(s), it may be time to rise up and try something new. We are meant to be abundant. Our higher selves want us to be abundant. The universe already said yes; you just have to believe you can have what you want.