WHAT IS DESIRE IN THE HOUSE OF LYSISTRATA?
Desire is a word that I use frequently on my website, but its meaning is more complex than you may think. In my conversations with men, I've noticed they tend to simplify the word to a single definition. However, I'm here to explain what desire really means.
But first, let's see what the dictionary has to say about it.
According to The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, 5th Edition, desire is a verb that means...
To wish or long for; want.
To want to have s3x with (another person).
To express a wish for; a request.
Can you guess which meaning men constantly bring up? They aren't wrong; there's just a lot more to discover. And that's what I'd like to explore. My goal as a Femdom and Sugar Baby is to expand what is possible, and that includes expanding how we think.
Desire is a multifaceted concept. To be desired by another person can mean you are adored and cherished. To desire someone else means you could long for their presence, touch, and affection. It can also mean you would like to ask someone for something. The diverse interpretations of desire can open up many possibilities, conversations, and perspectives.
In simple dating terms, You could desire to take me to dinner. That desire can be fulfilled if you take me on an à la carte date.
I desire to be valued, respected, adored, cherished, worshiped, and well taken care of. I desire to spend my time with gentlemen who are kind, respectful, polite, generous, confident, and successful.
Desirable date ideas
Sipping champagne and smoking cigars at Room 725
Enjoying a beautiful dinner in a laid-back atmosphere at Odd Duck
Dining in a gorgeous atmosphere at Jeffery's
Attending a kink event hosted by Colette
Surprising me with multiple dates in a single day at The Domain
The more you desire, the more contrast you experience; the more contrast you experience, the more you will expand.
Things I desire
I desire luxury experiences
I desire to be treated to dates with gentlemen
I desire to attend the Femdom Ball in London every October
I desire to write, and self publish several memoirs
I desire to be spoiled by gentlemen
I desire to teach BDSM workshops to both couples and women who desire to become Femdoms
I desire to raise both of our vibrational frequencies
I desire to co-create fantasies and luxury experiences with gentlemen.
I bring my spiritual practice into dating and BDSM. Abraham Hicks says, "In other words, this co-creative contrasting experience is causing everyone involved to launch more rockets of desire and therefore to Vibrationally expand to those new places. And the only reason any of them ever feel negative emotions is because, in the moment of negative emotion, they have not yet allowed the expansion."
That means, if you resist expansion, you might not feel so good. You might resist expansion if you think you are not worthy or if the expansion feels too difficult. If you think you are not worthy, then you are not in alignment with your higher self.
Abraham Hicks says, “Negative emotion means that your life has caused expansion, which, in the moment of the negative emotion, you are disallowing. Every time. No exceptions. That means that no matter what you believe is the cause of your negative emotion (and certainly we understand why you want to justify your negative feelings, because it would feel better if they would be nicer), your negative emotion means that you are disallowing your own expansion. Period.”
If you feel uncomfortable when you are dating, it may be because you are trying something new for the first time; expanding can feel uncomfortable. However, if something feels completely off to you, it could be because you are not in alignment with your higher self. You must know the difference between the two types of feelings. This also means you will have to be very self-aware, and that takes conscious practice.
Remember, the ego can try to wreck you when you try something new. If you are curious, open to expansion, and you welcome being in allowance, you will be just fine in The House of Lysistrata.
It is okay, and in fact, it is preferred that you desire multiple things from multiple people and multiple places. The more you desire, and the more you think good thoughts and feel good feelings, the more you will receive.
As long as you are moving in the direction of things that feel good to you, you will continue to expand, and your light will shine brighter, and your vibrational frequency will rise.
If I desire to spend time with you, it means your light is very bright, and we are a good vibrational match. If we have scheduled a second date, it means I like your light.
Raising our vibrational frequencies gets us that much closer to healing the world. This is how I bring my spiritual practice into my dating life. This is how I use my power for good. This is why you call me Goddess.